What Every Girl Wants

There is no question, rhyme or reason for any of the following. Girls just want the following. Even if a girl say "oh, no, that's silly" or "I wouldn't want a guy to do that" she's just being realistic and not going to get disappointed. So, here is it, fairly simple, What Every Girl Wants:

1. Chivalry - The Code of Courting; she wants doors opened for her, she wants you to go out of your way to recognize that she is a lady, and deserves the your attention. 
2. To Win - She wants to win. Maybe you're having an argument, or playing a fun game of billiards, but she wants to win. But don't just give up and walk away [especially from an argument]. You should always stand up for what you believe in, just if things start getting too heated, tell her she's right. Many girls don't want to get caught up in the drama of everything, so it will be easier if she "wins" both of you can move on.
3. Spontaneous Dates - Surprise her! You don't want your girl to get tired of the same old thing. Get creative. Don't go crazy, just change things up or don't tell her where you are going. This is of course you can drive. From personal experience [cough] I have never actually dated someone that could drive, or that could take me out on a date. But if you surprise your girl, she will be impressed.
4. Maturity - Sounds like a given, to me at least, but we want guys to be mature. Now, granted we do want you to make a few mistakes, but just don't be rowdy, and obnoxious. If we wanted to date a kindergarten, we would, we want a boy that will treat us with respect and treat themselves and others with respect as well.
5. Romance - I could spend hours on talking about romance. You combine maturity, chivalry, and romance, and a girl will have the perfect boy. Romance is the little things, the cutesy things that make the two of you blush if you really like one another. Soft kisses, holding hands [see note below] and just holding her when the two of you are close. She'll love it, and even if she isn't such a touchy feelie person, like I am, the romance and cutesy is fun.
6. Not Being Ignored - I think this could fall under maturity, but don't be an ass. Don't flat out ignore your girl. From personal experience, I want to just go up to some people now and just smack them because they are so stupid. Girls don't want to be ignored, call us, text us, let us know you are thinking about us. We enjoy that, a LOT. Girls overthink, and probably will think about you more than you think of her, so if you text her randomly "thinking of you" her entire day will be made. Now, if you don't like the girl anymore, don't just start ignoring her. You have to be mature and confront her about it. Never EVER leave her standing. You have to talk to her, especially if the two of you are involved. 

Now, that's just 6 of the key things to remember about what girls want. Let me know what you think in a comment below, or send me an email at me@andapaige.com for advice :D

*Note: My tip of the day, is when you are holding her hand slowly stroke her hand with your thumb. It will feel more natural, and it will be less awkward than just having the limp hand syndrome. And, most importantly, she will remember that.